I have a greedy brother that wants it all to himself. Soon as our mother was carted away in a nursing home he went out and coerced my father into executing a Power of Attorney. Prior to that I had all life insurances set up where all of us siblings including my brother would be equal beneficiaries. I had all our names on the financial accounts. Soon as my brother got that account he went out and took our names off the account, put his name solely on my father’s account as a joint owner of the account. Ever since this time the wills have been changed to where my brother inherits everything which was not our mother and father’s wishes. My brother even uses my father’s car and thinks it is his now. He has literally moved in with our father and taken over the home and isolates our father. He has squandered away over $200,000 and as of now there is only about $11,000. A lot of wonderful things happen to my brother once he got this license to steal. He was able to get a $180,000 30 year loan magically paid off in 2013. Seeing how that went so well he and his wife went out and took out an equity loan for $204,400 which you can all but be sure that my father is making the house payment. My father and mother are both incapacitated. I’ve tried to go to Court and gain general guardianship over my father. But, there is a da Clerk of Court who is good friends with my brother and his wife. I have appealed and will appeal every bias ruling handed down by the CC good ole boy and gal. The Clerk has a conflict of interest. I also reported this to local DSS officials who have turned a blinds eye to everything. I am really pissed off at local CC officials because I have strong reasons to believe they are aiding and abetting my brother in keeping the POA in tact and allowing the exploitation of my parents to go on. Both my mother and father are still alive. Just to let you know I will not let CC officials deter me from putting a stop to this BS!!! Stevie Wonder could see through this POA crap. So seeing how CC officials don’t want to put an end to my brother’s POA gravy train, I have reported this to IRS and have asked for an investigation from the income my brother has gained from his POA!! I gave IRS all banking information. I also reported this to the United States Treasury cause my father receives federal government benefits and under 31 CFR 240.17(d) the U.S. Treasury does not recognize a state POA or durable power of attorney. It is only recognized 6 months following a period of incapacitation. I also reported this elderly exploitation to the U.S. Attorney General’s Office, the U.S. General Accounting Office, and first thing this week will be getting in touch with my Senator, Lindsey Graham. So, let that be a lesson for you. Do not give up especially if your parents are alive and you know they are being exploited by a family member or anyone else. Report this to the United States Federal Government especially if you loved one receives Federal benefits. Feel free to email and I can give you resources to handle a license to steal. I get so sick of hearing the crap: “He is doing such a good job taking care of dad”. He is doing a good job of secretly stealing and our dad don’t even know it. He don’t even know where his income is coming from or the name of his bank.

My mother has told me my brother whonis living with her is very controlling so he isolates myself and my children blocks phone contact my mother health no that good recently she had a fall and I’m concerned my brother threatens me with police of i go there and has done twice .what can I do I’m very concerned for my mothers health my brother has bipolar on and off his meds my mum i75 .please help me with some advice

How is it that one family member accuses another by hearsay and transactions supposedly made online and the one being accused at times had their parents permission and gave them cash for the patents to use the card the accused never had access to the card. And. Has recieots for what ever transactions were made.and there are claims that the accused knows nothing about and the one making the claim says she ha power of attorney and parents have dementia both is which are untrue the parents took care of themselves and did their own finances and took care of themselves

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I am very concern about my sister. She is 82 and has a companion male who is 62. That automatically sends up a red flag. My sister had a blockage and blood clot and had to have emergency surgery. Her companion did not notify me her sister until he had given permission for them to do surgery. After surgery and talking with the doctor I asked if there was any damage . His reply was yes. She didn’t know who I was nor who her companion was. She had problems speaking. The doctor asked about family and I told him she had 2 daughters but that they were on the outs, that I was her sister than her companion. The doctor stated that the daughters had the legal right for making decisions for their mother, than next would come to me. The doctor stated that the companion had no rights about that whatsoever. I informed the companion of course he was upset because he couldn’t make decisions pretaining to her health. He has alienated her from her daughters and all family members. The doctor put my name and phone on her medical records on who to contact. They called and told me they were going to contact Conway Regional Hospital on transferring my sister there for rehabiation. I said okay. They later contacted me and stated that Conway Regional Hospital wouldn’t accept her because she had no physical needs that needed theraphy only speech therapist. They than asked me if I would give my consent for them to contact Salmon Place Rehabitation Center and nursing home. I said yes. They called me back and said that they would accept her. My problem is that the companion drove her there and got her admitted than he proceed to have my name removed and his added. I asked him why and he said that’s what she wanted. I asked him if he was related to her and his reply was yes. I than asked how was he related and he hung up on me. They are not married because she would lose income and health care benefits from her deceased husband. Arkansas where she lives does not recognize common law marriages. This companion has filed 6 chapter 13 bankruptcy and 2 Chapter 7. He has just recently filed Chapter 7 again and added her car of which he cosigned but she makes the payments. He gave a portion of her income to the attorney stating it was his. He stated that he would quit work and take care of her because he has a retirement income. His retirement income is Social Security of which is alittle over $1000.00 and when he turns 65 it won’t be that much. He changes jobs about every 6 months. He’s a truck driver and my concern besides him dipping into her income which isn’t a lot is that he will take her out of the facility and take her on the road with him and her family members will not know where she is or how to contact her. Everytime she tells him she wants him gone he starts crying saying he has no place to go. One of the time she was in the hospital she had $400. 00 in her purse. He hung onto her purse. When she got out she asked for her purse and checked to see if the money was staill there. It was not she asked him about it and he said he knew nothing about it that he didn’t take it. She continue to ask him about it and finally he put his hand in his pocket and pulled the money out and gave it to her. I’m trying my best to protect her from him but I continue to get road blocks. I call the rehab center daily to enquire on her condition and they continue to refuse to give me any information.I;ve tried talking to the administrator and she is of no help. I know that family members have a right to ask about their condition and to visit their family member. However, they won’t give out any information and they said no visitors.I had my other who lives out state to call and see if she could find out how our sister was doing. She called and they refused to tell her anything.She has made him benefictory on her life insurance policies and he is suppose to use that money to bury her with. However, I am pretty sure that he will take the money and run. She pays the rent on the house she is renting and her car payment and he is suppose to pay the utilities . Twice that I know of utilities were disconnected because he failed to pay them because he had no money. She ended up having to pay to get her utilities connected again. I personally don’t see how he can pay everything with the income he has therefore he will be dipping into her income. My sister doesn’t have much but what she does have needs to be there for her to pay her bills. I think that if he is allowed to have control of her money to pay her bills that he should be held accountability for what he uses her money for. Otherwise he should be required to file a monthly report and receipts showing what he has paid out of her account. I’m bucking my head against the wall trying to find a way to protect her. HELP