They removed our doctor on day 13, April 4, 2002. Then until April 18, 2002 he never went to see our mother and save her from dying. She was already dying of starvation. The medical staff claimed that the reason she was not eating or not well was because they had to have new medicine to get her to eat better and gain the loss of weight back!!! That is a lie. Mother had a swallowing problem, which no one addressed for 13 days.
Mother was admitted on March 21, 2002. She was at the hospital for 10 days and they had her on a light liquid diet. Mother was eating and drinking at the hospital. She did not walk this time at the hospital either.
Their Physical Therapist at the nursing home claimed to us on the day he came into her room and tried to get her up to perform walking, that she had walked 80 ft. already. My God, mother stoped walking in the hospital and we had been there with mother already 12 days and she never walked with us!!! Also, mother had an aneurysm, which no one knew, because I had the autopsy to confirm that.
So, after being in this home, in the first 5-10 days the staff was outraged at mother's doctor, who by the way was on his vacation, would not change mother's meds for what they wanted. They claimed to us he was harming our mother, so they fought with him is all we know. They said and acted as if they were fighting for mother. We trusted them.
Now, after all that, the autopsy and her being cremated, we called the Ombudsman Office for the formal complaint on the nursing home. Then the State of Oregon investigates, which took 6 months. Then they said it is a no fault by the nursing home report.
We knew better than that, so we hired a Legal Consulting Firm and they investigated. They tell us it is a wrongful death negligence case. I satrted at this time to look for lawyers and have been doing it, even to this minute, still trying, one never knows.
Now we have tried to get any lawyer to take this case and not one from anywhere wants this case. many say to us that this case is so messy, not interested, big caseload...........ya right, we know better.
I just want people to know about this journey, not that this is the advertisement to get one lawyer. I know already that is not going to happen. We have until April 15, 2005 to file this case. It takes time to work a case as this and then sue. We are facing the facts is all I can say, but please read this and know..............TRUST NO ONE WITH YOUR LOVED ONE IN A NURSING HOME.[/b]


